Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with Vincent Beggs.… Continue reading The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

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Year 1, 2012-2013, manipulative love bombing letter. First time I wiped his ass!!!!

This is what he said to me.  At least I wised up and I’m not still there believing his BS, like some people. I don’t have an ounce of respect for liars like him so there isn’t anything to keep to myself because it was never sacred.  Every word was meant to tug at my… Continue reading Year 1, 2012-2013, manipulative love bombing letter. First time I wiped his ass!!!!

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The Heart Of The Matter –

I have spent much time describing details that may be seen as meaningless or petty. Going over these gory details depicted the various stages of the emotional hell I lived through.  I had to get it out to regain my sanity after having been muzzled and by accepting that I was conned.  I had to… Continue reading The Heart Of The Matter –

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This is how he lies. Perfect example of love bombing, omission, deflection…I need to teach a class!

Emails I sent 6 months in through almost the end.  The chat which happened November 1, 2012 is perfect example of how the manipulative he is.  He tried to omit, camouflage a difficult conversation, he then tries to shift focus to coming to see me and when I keep to the point, he hangs up. … Continue reading This is how he lies. Perfect example of love bombing, omission, deflection…I need to teach a class!