This is my story. I am still feeling out what I want to do with the blog and non profit. I am still purging and needing to out all of his lies because he has no shame and he is still trying to pour salt over my wounds so I'm going to fight back with… Continue reading My Story.
This is what he said to me. At least I wised up and I’m not still there believing his BS, like some people. I don’t have an ounce of respect for liars like him so there isn’t anything to keep to myself because it was never sacred. Every word was meant to tug at my… Continue reading Year 1, 2012-2013, manipulative love bombing letter. First time I wiped his ass!!!!
I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy. I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with this… Continue reading The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…
I share these because to this day I still question myself. I question whether I was too...everything he said. Facts are I tried and I tried...the more I gave the more he took. This is the sort of thing his mother was doing behind my back. I'm not angry. I'm crying because I don't understand… Continue reading More gaslighting, deflection…why didn’t I walk…I’ll never ever know.
LALA was so happy... On Dec 21, 2015, at 3:52 PM, Linda wrote: Have fun in Costa Rica! I will be eager to see your photographs. No Walgreen's dinner for me this year. I am invited to the Sr. Bes and will have a day downtown with Chis and boys. I want you… Continue reading Christmas…Oh Joy.
Emails I sent 6 months in through almost the end. The chat which happened November 1, 2012 is perfect example of how the manipulative he is. He tried to omit, camouflage a difficult conversation, he then tries to shift focus to coming to see me and when I keep to the point, he hangs up. … Continue reading This is how he lies. Perfect example of love bombing, omission, deflection…I need to teach a class!