Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with Vincent Beggs.… Continue reading The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

Healing Stages, My Story

What being emotionally raped and gutted feels like

I’m not great at expressing myself when it comes to trying to describe how the emotional abuse I endured during the 5.5 years I was with my abuser, Vince Beggs, has impacted my life. But today, being seven floors underground in the heart of the World Trade Center, within the archaeological space where the 9/11 Museum’s… Continue reading What being emotionally raped and gutted feels like

My Story

Mountain Mama. August 4, 2017, the day Vince & Vesta finally ended.

I am going to Monterey, VA later today.  My attorney let his know over a month ago so that he would know to stay away or say I am going to be near him since that’s what he needs to believe.  I made plans to go months ago because I was hoping to ride in… Continue reading Mountain Mama. August 4, 2017, the day Vince & Vesta finally ended.

Manipulation, Uncategorized

Year 1, 2012-2013, manipulative love bombing letter. First time I wiped his ass!!!!

This is what he said to me.  At least I wised up and I’m not still there believing his BS, like some people. I don’t have an ounce of respect for liars like him so there isn’t anything to keep to myself because it was never sacred.  Every word was meant to tug at my… Continue reading Year 1, 2012-2013, manipulative love bombing letter. First time I wiped his ass!!!!

My Story

#AndsoIstayed – “Not everyone gets to see poetic justice served for their abuser. Not everyone gets out alive.”

Society’s  attitude towards domestic and emotional abuse is abhorrent because it assumes the victims had a choice or that we must have done something to have provoked it.  Read what my abuser's family and friends say to me and how cruel, horrible and despicable they are.  It’s not a stretch to say they feel gratification from… Continue reading #AndsoIstayed – “Not everyone gets to see poetic justice served for their abuser. Not everyone gets out alive.”

Abuser, Bad Days, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, Manipulation, My Story

WWMVH & the Price of standing up to Bullies.

My kids, their happiness, safety and security is what brings me joy and peace. I could choose to just drop off and delete this site but I rather explain why I’m taking a break. I started this blog largely to keep the man who physically and emotionally abused me, away.  To expose the games he… Continue reading WWMVH & the Price of standing up to Bullies.