Love Bombing, Manipulation, My Story

This is how Vince Beggs was trying to lighten things up!

I set out to post all of his cards and ALL of the selfies he sent from December 21, 2016, the night he assaulted me, until August 30, 2017.  However, in trying to organize everything by date, I decided it was a waste of time, plus the need to see the proof to reassure myself… Continue reading This is how Vince Beggs was trying to lighten things up!

My Story, victim blaming

@Joyce Gearhart, @Mariette Vanderzon, @Tim Hanson, @ Jeff Gooder, @ Sarah Shelquist, @Roger Masse, @Sabrina Moe, @Marc Clausen, @Max Young, @Lee Beggs, @Chuck Beggs, @Kim Henkel, @Mark Henkel, @Jennifer Hottendorf, @Sonya Griffin, @Kimberly Johnson Campbell, “you have a responsibility to get involved. Don’t look the other way… Be a part of the solution.”

Own blaming me for Vincent Beggs choice to throw me with such force to have destroyed a major function of my inner ear and to have caused brain trauma that I am still in therapy for today. Own being an enabler. Own having been right out cruel to a victim of domestic violence, and simplifying… Continue reading @Joyce Gearhart, @Mariette Vanderzon, @Tim Hanson, @ Jeff Gooder, @ Sarah Shelquist, @Roger Masse, @Sabrina Moe, @Marc Clausen, @Max Young, @Lee Beggs, @Chuck Beggs, @Kim Henkel, @Mark Henkel, @Jennifer Hottendorf, @Sonya Griffin, @Kimberly Johnson Campbell, “you have a responsibility to get involved. Don’t look the other way… Be a part of the solution.”

My Story

Why Post Personal Exchanges?

My sarcasm and attempts to be funny helps manage the pain of having fallen for these empty words.  I re read what I wrote and realized lightening it up is my way of reconciling for feeling stupid and embarrassed to have felt so connected.  Underneath the humor is a deep sense of violation that is… Continue reading Why Post Personal Exchanges?