I’m not a jilted lover. I did nothing to provoke him attacking me, but I bet his story is he tried to restrain me - He’s caused permanent damage - ask yourself how that happens if he was really restraining me - he's lying. He's a pathological liar and he will destroy you without you… Continue reading First Date Dinner, Second Date Theater…Supplier or suppliers, he’s DANGEROUS! Please read.
Gist of it is the ex wife was never happy with Vince having a life. I met her once and was immediately concerned. I was cordial until I dared to reach out to her directly after we had met to mention her younger son telling me his mom didn't want to hear about me and… Continue reading Ex-wife and Thanksgiving 2015 – 4 years into it…
Society’s attitude towards domestic and emotional abuse is abhorrent because it assumes the victims had a choice or that we must have done something to have provoked it. Read what Vince’s family and friends say to me and how cruel, horrible and despicable they are. It’s not a stretch to say they feel gratification from kicking… Continue reading #AndsoIstayed – “Not everyone gets to see poetic justice served for their abuser. Not everyone gets out alive.”
I began this post when I wasn't feeling that great. Wondering for the millionth time WHY? there's no answer. I know that...I ask because I can never imagine being so cruel. I am far from perfect but I can not wrap my head around what he did to me - I wiped this man's… Continue reading Why Vince?
My birthday is coming up on the 12th and so is his court hearing to have the charges he pled guilty or no contest to deferred. Last year, in order to soften me up and try and get me to drop the charges, he took me out to dinner, but paid cash because he didn't… Continue reading My Birthday After The Assault
I wanted to call you today. No, not because I miss you or because "I love you," which I don't since you're not real, but to ask how you can live with yourself...I don't get it...yeah, I had some disappointing medical news today, thanks to you throwing me against the wall, and yes, I am… Continue reading F*&% YOU Vince
i have been feeling down for the last couple of days thinking about him and the "good times" I realized that my self doubt and heartache and anxiety floods my being when I think of the "good times" because that's the state I was constantly trying to go back to. He was great in bed,… Continue reading Must Read!
Via After Narcissistic Abuse You can’t engage in reality with a Narcissist because they lack a conscience, morals, empathy, and emotions – so do not expect to be heard, yet alone find common ground or any sort of closure. Don’t try to fight a war that you can’t win because a Narcissist lacks any and… Continue reading His favorite phrase – “I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU WANT…”
I am glad to not understand or never be able to understand how people like him can sleep. About the Blog Categories Archives The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse By Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC The cycle of abuse Lenore Walker (1979) coined of tension building, acting-out, reconciliation/honeymoon, and calm is useful in most abusive relationships. However, when… Continue reading The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse
Letter resonates...only difference is I'm still picking up the pieces... Tyler Nix There has never been a single moment in which I wished I never met you. Even I find that hard to believe, but it’s the truth. Before you, I had nothing to hold up to the light and point to and say,… Continue reading Dear Vince…