Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with Vincent Beggs.… Continue reading The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

My Story

#AndsoIstayed – “Not everyone gets to see poetic justice served for their abuser. Not everyone gets out alive.”

Society’s  attitude towards domestic and emotional abuse is abhorrent because it assumes the victims had a choice or that we must have done something to have provoked it.  Read what my abuser's family and friends say to me and how cruel, horrible and despicable they are.  It’s not a stretch to say they feel gratification from… Continue reading #AndsoIstayed – “Not everyone gets to see poetic justice served for their abuser. Not everyone gets out alive.”

Understanding Narcissistic Abuse

Sins of the mother

It was always odd to have to look at their faces with their signature fake smiles, going out of their way to announce what a "happy and normal family" they were.  Not sure who they were trying to convince besides themselves - The ultimate shit show that I'm embarrassed to say I wanted to be… Continue reading Sins of the mother

Abuser, victim blaming

Emails from a bully. #EquipmentDepot’s Mark Henkle, Abuser’s family, calling me a “Dolt” –

Emails are from Mark, Vince's brother in law who is apparently buying Vince's lies.  This is a great example of the narcissist smearing their victim's reputation. Mark Henkel <henkel_mark@yahoo.com> Wed, Feb 7, 2018 at 10:42 PM To: Vesta Vesta, It is SOOO good to hear from you. I hope you had a Merry Christmas and… Continue reading Emails from a bully. #EquipmentDepot’s Mark Henkle, Abuser’s family, calling me a “Dolt” –