I’m not a jilted lover. I did nothing to provoke him attacking me, but I bet his story is he tried to restrain me - He’s caused permanent damage - ask yourself how that happens if he was really restraining me - he's lying. He's a pathological liar and he will destroy you without you… Continue reading First Date Dinner, Second Date Theater…Supplier or suppliers, he’s DANGEROUS! Please read.
The biggest mistake I made that night was to not have the police arrest him. I am still afraid of him and can't wait until I move away from here. Yesterday, during our brief conversation he proved he was the same guy from the night he assaulted me. He was only concerned about… Continue reading It was my neck.
Society’s attitude towards domestic and emotional abuse is abhorrent because it assumes the victims had a choice or that we must have done something to have provoked it. Read what Vince’s family and friends say to me and how cruel, horrible and despicable they are. It’s not a stretch to say they feel gratification from kicking… Continue reading #AndsoIstayed – “Not everyone gets to see poetic justice served for their abuser. Not everyone gets out alive.”
I don’t remember why, but while waiting for a flight in San Francisco to head back to DC, he called me a c&$) - I only remember grabbing my belongings and walking away, crying until we boarded and for most of return flight, while he said nothing and acted as though I had done something… Continue reading After he called me a c&@$
My birthday is coming up on the 12th and so is his court hearing to have the charges he pled guilty or no contest to deferred. Last year, in order to soften me up and try and get me to drop the charges, he took me out to dinner, but paid cash because he didn't… Continue reading My Birthday After The Assault
I am making his “books” that he wrote to me every Christmas public because they are meaningless and because he has gone on living life without any remorse or afterthought after violently attacking me with such force that it caused a severe concussion, which I am still dealing with. If that wasn’t enough my head… Continue reading His Christmas letter…
I wanted to call you today. No, not because I miss you or because "I love you," which I don't since you're not real, but to ask how you can live with yourself...I don't get it...yeah, I had some disappointing medical news today, thanks to you throwing me against the wall, and yes, I am… Continue reading F*&% YOU Vince
i have been feeling down for the last couple of days thinking about him and the "good times" I realized that my self doubt and heartache and anxiety floods my being when I think of the "good times" because that's the state I was constantly trying to go back to. He was great in bed,… Continue reading Must Read!
It was always odd to have to look at their faces with their signature fake smiles, going out of their way to announce what a "happy and normal family" they were. Not sure who they were trying to convince besides themselves - The ultimate shit show that I'm embarrassed to say I wanted to be… Continue reading Sins of the mother
I am glad to not understand or never be able to understand how people like him can sleep. About the Blog Categories Archives The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse By Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC The cycle of abuse Lenore Walker (1979) coined of tension building, acting-out, reconciliation/honeymoon, and calm is useful in most abusive relationships. However, when… Continue reading The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse