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What do you think? Did his ex create drama or is it my imagination?

I’m sharing these conversations because I was muzzled for so long and was told everything was my fault.  Even when he would confront his ex wife on the lies, he would blame and punish me for not letting go.  He has alienated me from mutual friends and a huge employer when he characterized me as… Continue reading What do you think? Did his ex create drama or is it my imagination?

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Only Evil Does This!

I love Kristen's blog.  She writes with clarity explaining every excruciating aspect of being in a relationship with with a narcissist and what Narcissistic Abuse does to a person.    When I read her work  it's as if she has reached into the deepest part of my soul where the wound is still raw and… Continue reading Only Evil Does This!

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Angela Plemmon De Ramos & Vincent Beggs – Classless acts.

On July 2, 2018, as his words were being documented, Vincent Beggs said he had spoken with Angie Plemmons who had told him I had communicated unnecessary information to her.  Only problem with that scenario is I haven’t talked, thought, or seen this woman in over 11 years! So, who’s lying? I learned the information… Continue reading Angela Plemmon De Ramos & Vincent Beggs – Classless acts.

Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

  I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with this… Continue reading The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

Gaslighting, Manipulation, My Story

He raped my soul, physically maimed and emotionally gutted me, and said to kill myself to put him “out of his misery.”

This evil monster was driving me to the brinks of suicide going as far as telling me to kill myself.  If I sit with the sadness I have to face having been conned.  I have to face that in emotionally and intellectually raped because I would have never ever met this vermin had I known… Continue reading He raped my soul, physically maimed and emotionally gutted me, and said to kill myself to put him “out of his misery.”

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The Audacity…

Don’t you think Angie should have thought about her professional career before choosing to try and intimidate me when she sent that horrible message? I mean, what a concept! Right? Why is this woman putting what the consequences of HER ACTIONS against me, on me. How is that my problem.  Kinda like Vincent Beggs telling… Continue reading The Audacity…