Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

  I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with this… Continue reading The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

Abuser, Love Bombing, My Story

Our First Date: Dinner. Second Date: Theater. Yours?

I’m writing this because he violently assaulted me by throwing/slamming me into a wall that resulted in severe damages I am still suffering from.  I’m not a jilted lover nor unstable. I’m a survivor of 5.5 years of emotional abuse and a single episode of a violent attack. Threats and throwing things were a norm.… Continue reading Our First Date: Dinner. Second Date: Theater. Yours?

Abuser, Bad Days, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, Manipulation, My Story

WWMVH & the Price of standing up to Bullies.

My kids, their happiness, safety and security is what brings me joy and peace. I could choose to just drop off and delete this site but I rather explain why I’m taking a break. I started this blog largely to keep the man who physically and emotionally abused me, away.  To expose the games he… Continue reading WWMVH & the Price of standing up to Bullies.