Abuser, Bad Days, Gaslighting

He almost killed me

I am "lucky to be walking and talking" are words I am still wrapping my head around.  That's what I was told.  Vince almost killed me.  That's what he did to me.  And now he is dating - he's found himself a new or perhaps multiple suppliers.  Bastard doesn't have the decency to just disappear… Continue reading He almost killed me

Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

Bumble and my neck!

Lol...my sweet friend Carey sent screenshots of his dating profile.  His pictures are from 3-5 years ago, and he forgot to mention he’s a pathological liar, caused brain injury and destroyed my vestibular nerve when he assaulted me, a control freak, likes "*&^%$" porn, pays strippers in vegas 2000 for "just" a "lap dance" and… Continue reading Bumble and my neck!

Gaslighting, Healing Stages, My Story

Ex-wife and Thanksgiving 2015 – 4 years into it…

Gist of it is the ex wife was never happy with Vince having a life.  I met her once and was immediately concerned.  I was cordial until I dared to reach out to her directly after we had met to mention her younger son telling me his mom didn't want to hear about me and… Continue reading Ex-wife and Thanksgiving 2015 – 4 years into it…