Abuser, Bad Days, Gaslighting

He almost killed me

I am "lucky to be walking and talking" are words I am still wrapping my head around.  That's what I was told.  Vince almost killed me.  That's what he did to me.  And now he is dating - he's found himself a new or perhaps multiple suppliers.  Bastard doesn't have the decency to just disappear… Continue reading He almost killed me

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Abuser, Bad Days, Healing Stages, My Story

F*&% YOU Vince

I wanted to call you today. No, not because I miss you or because "I love you," which I don't since you're not real, but to ask  how you can live with yourself...I don't get it...yeah, I had some disappointing medical news today, thanks to you throwing me against the wall, and yes, I am… Continue reading F*&% YOU Vince

Abuser, Bad Days, Healing Stages, My Story, Uncategorized

His favorite phrase – “I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU WANT…”

Via After Narcissistic Abuse  You can’t engage in reality with a Narcissist because they lack a conscience, morals, empathy, and emotions – so do not expect to be heard, yet alone find common ground or any sort of closure. Don’t try to fight a war that you can’t win because a Narcissist lacks any and… Continue reading His favorite phrase – “I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU WANT…”

Abuser, Bad Days, Healing Stages, My Story, Uncategorized

….and then he says he wasn’t abusive

He's a bully.  Verbally abusive bully who thinks he is better than anyone else.  He is mean and could care less about anyone other than himself.  I can name example after example of the things he said and did to me that match the list below.  I lived through it and am continuing to rid… Continue reading ….and then he says he wasn’t abusive

Abuser, Bad Days, Healing Stages, My Story, Uncategorized

Dear Vince…

Letter resonates...only difference is I'm still picking up the pieces...   Tyler Nix There has never been a single moment in which I wished I never met you. Even I find that hard to believe, but it’s the truth. Before you, I had nothing to hold up to the light and point to and say,… Continue reading Dear Vince…