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I never knew what Gaslighting was until after my abuser, assaulted me. I finally learned there was actually a name to what he had been doing to me since the beginning of our relationship. I think the most outrageous words he ever uttered was in late July of 2017 when he told me the bruises on... Continue Reading →
Narcissists are “crazy-makers” and they thrive on negative and debilitating drama through the manipulation of real facts, lies, triangulating, backstabbing, betrayal, etc. This is all to support the crazy-maker’s agenda to divide and conquer, harm and disable, or essentially to destroy people and situations. This is their mechanism to divert reality in BOTH ‘one to […]... Continue Reading →
This is him and how he was when no one was watching. This evil monster was driving me to the brinks of suicide going as far as telling me to kill myself. If I sit with the sadness I have to face that I was conned. I have to face that in a way I... Continue Reading →
When a person tells a target/victim to just move on for instance, what message does that send? It says that what happened to you isn’t that important for you to be going on and on with all of your words and describing the details of your horrendous experience, etc. It is a total invalidation... Continue Reading →
His tight death grip on my arm as we left the barbecue…
His crazy accusations at the top of his lungs…
The twinkle in his eye at my fear when he almost veered the car into the median….
Even now as I write this, just thinking about that look of imperceptible glee on Dex’s face makes me sick to my stomach…
Over the weeks that passed after the incident, I tried, tried and tried to forget about it but my mind kept flashing back to that day. The one and only other time I brought up “the incident” after the coffeeshop, Dex accused me of harbouring resentment and purposely choosingnot to get past it.
Stupid me tried even harder to prove him wrong and put more effort into showing him just how much I loved him. I won’t lie to you. I willfully ignored how our minor disagreements easily…
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He views himself as extremely confident. After all, gallup strengthsfinder said so. Great information to have when you're a "senior leader" - Sad though if you live and treat your personal relationships as though you are a "senior leader." When he had to meet with his subordinates, those who actually used the products he designed... Continue Reading →
I share because I hurt. I share because I was treated as though my life didn't matter. I share because I need to say this is what they did to me. Not just him but his entire family treated me as though my life was worthless. If you find yourself with toxic people like this,... Continue Reading →