33856bc9e0ebda1696ce18cb3db0f006I feel validated and empowered after one of his enablers got in touch once they read my blog to say how sorry they were to have believed my abuser, Vince Beggs, Wells Fargo VP who is telling people he was trying to break up with me when he hurt me, and of course it was all “accidental.”

The beauty of the lies he tells is that most are documented, we have his friends who will eagerly share what they have been told since they believe it to be the truth.  We have court transcripts and then we have his own words, texts, emails, actions and my injuries and their severity, which will speak for itself.  I can’t wait for his following to learn how they have been used without realizing, and how they have now been dragged into a defamation case since they are sharing my abuser’s lies with others.  My abuser is going to find himself with huge legal bills since it all goes back to him.  That’s perhaps the most beautiful version of poetic justice I could have imagined.  Being so busy buying your own lies and sharing them with your public kinda leads to forgetting the other versions of the story you’ve told in court, in your own writing.  It’s amusing to watch his house of cards falling  apart, and it’s more amusing to know he is handling it the same way he has everything else. God! I sound just like his ex wife…LOL.  He handled their divorce and not dealing with his part by way of cycling like a crazy person and looking for women.  He’s doing the same exact thing!  Looking for a new supplier while cycling hoping all of this is going to go away!

He is emotionally incapable of sitting with discomfort where he has to self reflect, look at his own behavior, deal with why he is the way he is and make changes.  Will never happen in a million years!

He’s a moron unable to realize I would not be here if he would just stop lying.  I would not be here if he showed humanity.  I would not be here if he hadn’t humiliated me over and over and over again after physically maiming me.  I am here and will remain here and will continue to stand up to how I am suppose to act since I am a victim of intimate partner abuse.  I am going to be loud and as I gain confidence I will even get louder.  This has nothing to do with him – I could care less who he’s with, what he is doing or what happens to him at his job.  Those are not my problems, and it should never be an expectation of the abusee to stay silent in order to protect their abuser.  What sort of expectations are those? And, how will we ever break the cycle of abuse if we continue to stay silent?

I was silent for a long time, and he chose to humiliate me over and over and over again.  He has intentionally done things that have worsen my health.  He was aware or was a part of a threatening message trying to intimidate me so that I would shut down my blog.  When that failed, he filed two frivolous lawsuits in hopes he was going to get a judge to order me to shut things down.  It failed because I am not lying about what he did to me, my injuries and the hell I live in. So while he’s posting pictures of himself and his rides and preaching “life is good,” telling people how unstable I am because he broke up with me, I am watching him self destroy.

Keep on lying green eyed monster….Keep on the same path since it’s worked so well for you…

“Lying by omission, also known as a continuing misrepresentation or quote mining, occurs when an important fact is left out in order to foster a misconception. Lying by omission includes the failure to correct pre-existing misconceptions. For example, when the seller of a car declares it has been serviced regularly but does not tell that a fault was reported at the last service, the seller lies by omission. It can be compared to dissimulation. An omission is when a person tells most of the truth, but leaves out a few key facts that therefore completely change the story.”