This is why I stayed…his words melted my heart…note how he’s telling me how busy he is, having dinner with this co workers, and had to get sleep because of work. Well…Something has always bothered me about his conduct including what happened when he returned. Once we got home from the airport I saw what appeared to be dry splooge, for lack of a better word, on his jacket. And, he wanted to have sex all night – The last time we had this kind of a sexathon was January 2013 while he was lying about his Christmas trip. A sexathon, professing his love in rhe first love book night.
My gut nagged at me, but I ignored it and as always there was always an explanation. Oh…Just to be clear, I could care less that he went to Twin Peaks or paid a stripper $2000.00 to just do “lap dances” – I’m serious. If I trust you, then I don’t care because I’m confident in myself. No, I don’t have a perfect body but I don’t have any problems being naked so it’s not that woman who are young and in great shape intimitate me. Not at all. It’s about him lying about “work meetings” that took place at a restaurant that his company doesn’t pay for, and the disappearing games but then blaming me for not trusting him. No shit sherlock. What do you think will happen over time when you lie…Please accuse me of lying about the 2000.00 stripper whose phone number was stored in your telephone. Thank goodness the phone was a company phone and there’s s record of all texts.
So, fast forward to early 2017 when I learned that upon his arrival to Des Moines, and for the following three nights he was hanging out at Twin Peaks. He told me it was because they had good food…LOL..A liar can’t remember his last lie! The last time we were in Des Moines together I suggested going to Twin Peaks – he asked why and went on to make a comment about the food being horrible. OMG! Why did I stay!!!! I feel so sick, so so so sick.
I wonder if he even knows what the truth is? He told me he went on Match.com January of 2012, but I came across a second account that was Ifz******2011 – Yep! 2011. I don’t have a clue but am going to assume he cheated on me. I can’t speak to what happened in his marriage. He lies so much that I don’t have any reason to believe otherwise. I also remember seeing the Bumble app on his phone but not knowing what it was, and of course he downloaded Tinder on his second phone after he assaulted me but claimed he never logged in, yeah right. Just like Donald Trump didn’t know the women were paid off or that his good friends were committing bank fraud by misstating facts. Some lie about where they live and some lie about what they have access to and how much they have…Everyone is wonderful and honest until they get caught…I’m gonna stop. He is who he is.
Vince doesn’t believe omissions are lies so who knows what he was doing. What I do know, based upon the advice he gave his friend Jeff in 2016, during a business trip to Vegas, he wouldn’t blink about lying because he’s a selfish fuck. Vince was trying to talk Jeff into going to a strip club with us but Jeff didn’t want to because his wife was uncomfortable with him going and he respected that and told Vince he didn’t want to do anything that would cause her hurt. Vince’s response was to suggest not telling her. That’s who Vince is. I was shocked but he doesn’t respect anyone but himself. Even Jeff stated in an email that Vince is a liar.
I’m getting upset so need to go so I don’t go down this road tonight.
I AM NOT PULLING AWAY BUT HERE IS A SONG ABOUT GIVING UP….LOL…OMG!!! Talk about mind fuck.