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Lies are not the same for narcissists and psychopaths as they are for the rest of us. In this article on types of psychopaths, the author writes that in their world, “they don’t lie because lying is not a relevant issue for them. The idea or image of truth doesn’t exist with the psychopath, so... Continue Reading →
I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy. I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with this... Continue Reading →
Society’s attitude towards domestic and emotional abuse is abhorrent because it assumes the victims had a choice or that we must have done something to have provoked it. Read what my abuser's family and friends say to me and how cruel, horrible and despicable they are. It’s not a stretch to say they feel gratification from... Continue Reading →
Can't miss kudos, likes, or the praise, but most important, can't miss The MASTER'S TEXT! no no no...:) In the mornings, it ALWAYS accompanied me into the bathroom. Even during my 3 a.m pee break! Gotta have it cause It's the only thing I’m connected to. I'll die if I don't make myself laugh. I have... Continue Reading →
My kids, their happiness, safety and security is what brings me joy and peace. I could choose to just drop off and delete this site but I rather explain why I’m taking a break. I started this blog largely to keep the man who physically and emotionally abused me, away. To expose the games he... Continue Reading →
Living with someone like this is tremendously destructive to your psyche and anxiety provoking, causing the abused person to feel constantly confused, frightened, unsettled and off balance. THIS IS WHAT PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE IS! The other person may deny your perceptions, memory and very sanity which again makes you begin to think you are crazy or […]... Continue Reading →
I almost got away in the summer of 2015. Everything changed in the span of two weeks starting Memorial weekend that year. My ex-boyfriend had hurt me in almost every way you can possibly hurt someone, and during those two weeks I either found out about it or I endured it, and things were never… via... Continue Reading →