Gaslighting, Manipulation, My Story

He raped my soul, physically maimed and emotionally gutted me, and said to kill myself to put him “out of his misery.”

This evil monster was driving me to the brinks of suicide going as far as telling me to kill myself.  If I sit with the sadness I have to face having been conned.  I have to face that in emotionally and intellectually raped because I would have never ever met this vermin had I known… Continue reading He raped my soul, physically maimed and emotionally gutted me, and said to kill myself to put him “out of his misery.”

Gaslighting, Healing Stages, My Story

How long did you date her?

“A little less than 5 years” was what he told the court.  He lied and said he broke up with me on the 21st of December, 2016.  I guess he considers causing brain trauma and destroying someone’s ear the way to break up.  Or he could have been screwing around before he assaulted me or… Continue reading How long did you date her?

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The Audacity…

Don’t you think Angie should have thought about her professional career as a teacher for the State before choosing to try and intimidate me when she sent that horrible message? I mean, what a concept! Right? Why is this woman putting what the consequences of HER ACTIONS against me, on me. How is that my… Continue reading The Audacity…

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Why is our society like this? Why do so many people want the victims of abuse, whether domestic violence, sexual harassment or abuse, sibling abuse to just shut up?

A question I've been asking myself as I deal with my own drama being that  I am a survivor of domestic violence. 11/13/2017 16:11 EST | Updated 11/13/2017 16:32 EST Sexual Abuse Victims Are Shamed, Bullied And Ignored Into Silence I've heard so many extremely disappointing stories from my patients that I'm no longer surprised about companies with… Continue reading Why is our society like this? Why do so many people want the victims of abuse, whether domestic violence, sexual harassment or abuse, sibling abuse to just shut up?

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We Can’t Leave a Narcissist Until We Go Through These Five Stages

Via Fairytaleshadows  by Kristen Milstead Narcissists lure.They lure with promises, flattery, lies and sweet words. The mask shifts with each new person in their sights, adjusting to our likes and dislikes, filling in crevices to become whatever seems to be missing and fulfilling our long-lost dreams. What remains the same, however, is that the true nature… Continue reading We Can’t Leave a Narcissist Until We Go Through These Five Stages

Manipulation, My Story

Thank you Christine for acknowledging what Vince did to me was abuse.

After Vince and his family learned of the assault, my concussion, had seen the bruises on my body and learned of his arrest, his sister wrote him to say she knew what a kind person he was and that I must have provoked him.  This is the same sister who initially said she never liked… Continue reading Thank you Christine for acknowledging what Vince did to me was abuse.