Gaslighting, Manipulation, My Story

He raped my soul, physically maimed and emotionally gutted me, and said to kill myself to put him “out of his misery.”

This evil monster was driving me to the brinks of suicide going as far as telling me to kill myself.  If I sit with the sadness I have to accept having been conned - I have to face that he emotionally and intellectually raped me, and gained control over my mind.  He raped my soul. … Continue reading He raped my soul, physically maimed and emotionally gutted me, and said to kill myself to put him “out of his misery.”

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The Five Views of the Narcissist and How Our View Must Shift Over Time Before We Can Leave — In the Shadows of the Fairy Tale

People who have never been in a relationship with a narcissist fail to understand why it takes so long to leave one. Even afterward, we are sometimes left beating ourselves up over why it took us so long. This is destructive and unhelpful. Others ask the question because they were not emotionally involved. It’s easier… via… Continue reading The Five Views of the Narcissist and How Our View Must Shift Over Time Before We Can Leave — In the Shadows of the Fairy Tale

Manipulation, My Story

Thank you Christine for acknowledging what Vince did to me was abuse.

After Vince and his family learned of the assault, my concussion, had seen the bruises on my body and learned of his arrest, his sister wrote him to say she knew what a kind person he was and that I must have provoked him.  This is the same sister who initially said she never liked… Continue reading Thank you Christine for acknowledging what Vince did to me was abuse.

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Let the emails from 2013 to 2016 speak for themselves.

Why share exchanges with her?  Because she never allowed for us to live in peace.  I'm not excusing his behavior because looking back he was definitely created triangulation by telling me one thing, saying something else to her and her family and bad mouthing her and then saying something different to her.  That said, my experience with… Continue reading Let the emails from 2013 to 2016 speak for themselves.

Gaslighting, Healing Stages, My Story

Dear future or current supplier, according to the ever changing story, Brain trauma and destroying my inner ear is the way Mr. VP broke up with me on December 21, 2016.  

“A little less than 5 years” was the lie he told when he said he broke up with me on the 21st of December, 2016.  I guess he considers causing brain trauma and destroying someone’s ear the way to break up.  Or he could have been screwing around before he assaulted me or after and… Continue reading Dear future or current supplier, according to the ever changing story, Brain trauma and destroying my inner ear is the way Mr. VP broke up with me on December 21, 2016.  

Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

  I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with this… Continue reading The note my replacement, and his next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

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The Audacity…

Don’t you think Angie should have thought about her professional career as a teacher for the State before choosing to try and intimidate me when she sent that horrible message? I mean, what a concept! Right? Why is this woman putting what the consequences of HER ACTIONS against me, on me. How is that my… Continue reading The Audacity…