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Narcissists Can Love – But Run! Understanding Narcissistic Codependent Love

I had a conversation with a good friend about this last night because I often wonder if Vince ever loved me or cared for me.  It's not easy to go there because I feel foolish for having thought he did but there is a part of me that believes when he met me he saw… Continue reading Narcissists Can Love – But Run! Understanding Narcissistic Codependent Love

Healing Stages, My Story

Progress! I’m no longer under his control and it feels so good…

Is it immature? Is it childish?  Absolutely!  Posting old photos may seem trivial and weird, but to me doing so symbolizes freedom from being his slave.  For you it may be something else, but for me photos played a large part in how he chipped at my sense of self.  He gaslighted me over the… Continue reading Progress! I’m no longer under his control and it feels so good…

Abuser, Gaslighting, Healing Stages, Love Bombing, My Story

The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

I’m Vesta, a mother of 2, woman full of life, laughter and joy.  I have a good heart and always want to do what I can to help. I am also a woman hoping to find herself back to being the carefree free spirit who was deeply scared after a 5.5 year relationship with Vincent Beggs.… Continue reading The note my replacement or Vince Beggs next supplier should read. Let me introduce myself…

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What We Miss About the narcissist and my realization that there’s nothing special about Christine or anyone before or me or after me – ! Wooohooo

Random thoughts..I think Kristin reads my mind because lately I have been wondering what in God’s name could I miss about “us” when there isn’t anything I can list. I have began to run.  Slow, not more then a mile or two and lots of walking since it’s still difficult given the inner ear trauma… Continue reading What We Miss About the narcissist and my realization that there’s nothing special about Christine or anyone before or me or after me – ! Wooohooo

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Three experts explain why forgiving a narcissist shouldn’t be your top priority –

I wrote a long page then deleted. I'm grateful for this article because it reminded me to think of me first and that telling the truth is the only option no matter how it impacts those who choose to hurt intentionally. It's not up to me to protect my abuser or his ex wife. I… Continue reading Three experts explain why forgiving a narcissist shouldn’t be your top priority –

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Thank You Christine for Acknowledging Vince is devoid of emotion and is cruel. Nice we agree on so many things.

He is cruel and selfish and he doesn't believe omissions are lies. We'll see how that works out in court for him. His GF from late 80's until early 90's described him as a man who was emotionally unavailable, as did his ex wife, calling him emotionally devoid and detached.  His youngest son once described… Continue reading Thank You Christine for Acknowledging Vince is devoid of emotion and is cruel. Nice we agree on so many things.